I’ve known so many creative people in my life. Not all artist standing at easels, but creative in their own ways in their gifted areas. Some bloomed late, others were taught as children. I can honestly say that with all the stress life has to offer, looking at things through a creative lens makes this world more enjoyable. I wanted to share with you 5 Ways to live a more creative life, based on creative people who are in my life, or who passed through my life and shined their creativity. Of course I know lots of artists, but this isn’t about art, that’s an obvious area creativity is standard in. These are the people that people tend to gravitate towards and they don’t even know what it is that’s drawing them.
5 Style
I remember having a teacher in high school, Ms, Fitzgerald. This woman had an amazingly creative since of style. I swear I showed up to literature really just to see what she was wearing day to day. She came by her creativity by her bloodline, she was the great, great something of F. Scott Fitzgerald. Nice, right? The creative apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. But it wasn’t in the way you would think, yes she taught literature, and I never asked if she was a writer herself, her creativity that glowed and shined for the world was her since of style. She was tall and beautiful, but it wasn’t that, it was her style. She always walked in something that was memorable, things put together that most wouldn’t have thought went, but they did and they went together well! Stacked Espadrilles, biker boots, long flowy skirts, fiercely starched white dress shirts that were tied off or French tucked, before we had Pinterest and knew what that was! Ahead of her time and always runway ready. I’m 48, it’s been ages since I had her class, but she made an impression.
So get creative in that closet! Mix up the fancy top with the chunky casual shoes and jeans. Find out what makes you feel special when you put it on, and then you’ll know you found your own creative style.
4 Cooking
Creativity in the kitchen is always loved by friends and family. I’ve known a few people that were especially gifted in this area. Best of all my grandmothers, but they get a spot below, so for this I’m thinking of my friend Cheryl. We worked together in the corporate world, and she was always bringing in her creations to share. Chery’s love for food wasn’t just limited to her kitchen, she introduced me to cafe au lait and beignets at a little hole in the wall in Atlanta that were to die for. She had a gift both in the kitchen and in finding delicious treats in the community we worked in. My favorite was her post-Thanksgiving pot pies. She took all the things she had left over and stuck them in home made pie crust topped with gravy and covered with more home made dough, then they were baked. This made returning to the office after the holiday a lot cheerier! Cheryl passed this past month, but I’m sure she’s up in heavens having a grand time with all the chefs currently in residence up there.
So get creative in that kitchen, try new spices, add a few more vegetables to your dishes! Find a new ethnic restaurant in your community, but check the health score first, I’m a stickler for that at any eatery! Mix up the weekly meal plans. Find out what makes your taste buds dance, and then you’ll know you found your own creative cooking style.
3 Home Making
The Aunts Have it! My Aunt Lynn and my Aunt Kay(well, really 2nd cousin). These two ladies had an amazing way of making any place they live cozy and inviting. I remember summers in Ohio with Aunt Kay and she would have ladders out and wet paint up. Laura Ashley inspired floral and striped wall papers were all over the place, beautiful nick knacks here and there. And Aunt Lynn’s house always smelled amazing and gave you all the feels of a cabin tucked away in the country, though it was just a twenty minute drive south of Atlanta. Hanging quilts, potpourri spices simmering, classical music floating through her house. And always a fluffy cat sitting somewhere in view.
So get creative in your home! Don’t worry about if this or that is “in” or fits a specific style. Find things that make you feel cozy and happy. This doesn’t have to be on a ridiculous budget, hit your local thrift shops. Usually they support a great cause and you can get decor for an absolute steal! DIY some items! That’s just plain fun to begin with, and you feel so accomplished when you can tell guest that you created it. Find out what makes you feel at home, where you feel cozy and nurtured, and then you’ know you’ve found your own creative home style.
2 Worship
My art mentor growing up was Lydia Ellis. Lydia is an amazing artist to this day, but I’m thinking of her in this post because Lydia was the first creative worshipper I’d ever met. Lydia sees God as her true father, and in that way has a very loving relationship with him. When I was a teen and Lydia was teaching community art classes at the local college, I lied about my age to be able to join the classes. She just winked at me and said, “Sure you’re 16”, the classes were supposed to be 16+. I’d just turned 13. Well Lydia saw a hunger for art and love in me and so she would often get me for a weekend from my mother. Lydia’s kids were much younger than me, and it was a blast to be around this family. There was always church on a Lydia weekend. But this was not your grandmother’s church. The church was a small very young church borrowing space in a building. AGAPE. There were people in jeans, flowy hippie like skirts. The music was unrecognizable, filled with drums, acoustic guitars, and joy filled voices. It was magical, and back then pretty unusual. There are lots of these now and I think that’s awesome! It was like someone had taken the musical stylings of the beetles and Carol King and dipped them in the Holy Spirit. I loved it. And y’all these folks weren’t just standing for a hymn to be sang, they clapped, they raised their hands, and moved with the sounds. There was I’m sure many former hippies, and this atmosphere for my young budding hippie artist heart was in heaven. They were worshipping creatively, making worship personal. Lydia even included her art at home as part of her worship and as these churches have evolved, she’s been included in services creating art as they spoke.
So get creative in your worship! Mix it up, find some new spiritual musicians to check out, watch some new ministries online, get your journal out and doodle what God puts on your heart while you listen to a sermon. Find out what worship style fits best with your spirit, and then you’ know you found your own creative worship style.
1 LIVING
There was nothing my Grandmothers Sally(Anna Ruth to the Kentucky folks) and Pearl couldn’t do. Cooking, decorating, sewing, canning, making a cozy pallets for little ones to watch cartoons on, crafts and so on. These two ladies will forever be The Queens of Creative Living in my heart. My Grandma Pearl( Mamaw to me) didn’t always have an easy time, but she was so good at making each of us kids feel special and loved. Special treats, special one on one time, even with a very tight budget, she made it happen. And oh her fried bologna was the best on a Saturday morning. My grandmother Sally, or as we called her, Mom, she was a top Tupperware lady, a regional manager. She worked her tail off in that business and had so many special treasures to show for it. She spent an hour every night with her bible, she was always trying new recipes, her cooking was divine, beaded crafts, making our Easter dresses, crocheting till the wee hours of the morning with Gospel music blaring, I have no idea how my Papaw slept through it. Her Tupperware prizes were sprinkled through out her home, Giant freezers filled with her creative concoctions in the kitchen, grandfather clock in the hall, family photos all around, so very homey. She was creative in how she loved everyone in our family, even those that were difficult people and were harder to love on. Holidays were tops there with homemade candies, treats, and pies, homemade beaded ornaments hanging from the ceilings, Carols in the air, and twinkling lights. These two ladies were creative at how they lived their lives and even how they dealt with pain. Losses, sickness, even murder of my Grandma Sally’s father, which she was witness to and held hostage at, and they pushed on sharing love and believing in those around them.
So get creative in that life of yours! After all, it’s really short and shorter the older we get. Find areas of your life you can enjoy more by adding creativity and love to it. One thing is for sure, we all are at some point going to deal with sickness, sadness, disappointment, but we can control how we react to it, and we can do it creatively and choose to be joyful, as these two ladies in my life did, and then you’ll know you found your own creative living style.